Attitude comes from within and shows up clearly on the outside no matter what. Even subtle tone of voice or unspoken body language discloses the difference in attitude. One can say self-righteously that ‘I am this or that’, but her / his attitude gives away the underlying truth.

The renewal of self through the Holy Spirit is the only way I know to change attitude.

Oh Holy Spirit
please renew my spirit, my heart, and my mind
every morning

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