"Why does God seemingly require relinquishment before bringing something into being?

Part of the answer lies in the fact that frequently we hold on so tightly to the good that we do know that we cannot receive the greater good that we do not know. ... But this is only a partial answer. The fuller answer lies in the purposes of God in transforming the human personality. Relinquishment brings to us a priceless treasure: the crucifixion of the will."

~ Richard J. Foster, "Prayer"

Relinquishment - the process - can be excruciating, but the end result leads to Godly peace, peace that is experienced in living the will of God.

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